Упр.4 Модуль 1 Across the curriculum ГДЗ Spotlight 8 класс

Приведем выдержку из задания из учебника Юлия Ваулина, Джунни Дули 8 класс, Просвещение:

4 Change the following "you" statements into "I feel" statements. Use the adjectives bad, upset, annoyed, sad.

1 You never want to hang out with me any more!

2 Youtaskre late again! Youtaskre so unreliable!

3 Youtaskre always telling lies!

4 You never listen to me!

> I feel bad because we dontaskt hang out any more.

Dealing with Conflict

Losing friends is about as easy as making friends if you dontaskt know 1)...to deal with anger and conflict. Conflict is part of everyonetasks life. It will show up at school, at work and 2)...home. Ifs OK to feel angry, frustrated, annoyed, disappointed or sad. These feelings are natural, but ittasks how you deal with 3)... that makes the difference. Some people scream, shout, swear, call people names, try to get back at or even hit the person who has hurt them. Others do their best to keep away from disagreements, 4)...very few deal with conflicts successfully.

Resolving conflict is a step by step process. Before you start discussing the problem, cool off, count to 10, take a deep breath and imagine a relaxing place. Then, say whattasks really bothering you. While doing that, watch how you express yourself. Dontaskt blame or accuse. Share how you feel by using "I" statements. For example, dontaskt say "You are always bossing me around," but "I feel frustrated because you dontaskt pay attention to what I think."

You want people to hear your opinion so make sure you practice what you preach2. Listen carefully to the 5)... person and accept that he or she might see the problem in a different way. Be flexible and open-minded, willing to apologise, forgive and move on.